--- title: "Kitty party invitation message: 12 ready to copy - Eventi" description: "Kitty party invitation message samples for WhatsApp: monthly kitty, themed afternoons, housie and potluck. Copy one, change the date and venue, send it." canonical: https://ueventi.com/invitation-message/kitty-party last-updated: 2026-11-02 --- ![](/media/photos/ai-birthday-rooftop-800.webp) ![](/media/photos/party-confetti-800.webp) ![](/media/photos/ai-family-dinner-800.webp) ![](/media/photos/ai-birthday-rooftop-800.webp) ![](/media/photos/party-confetti-800.webp) ![](/media/photos/ai-family-dinner-800.webp) Kitty party: 12 ready messages # Kitty party invitation message for the group chat, the restaurant and the themed afternoon. A kitty party invitation message has to do three things: say whose turn it is, give the date and the venue, and ask for a yes by a day that lets you book the table. Below are twelve messages Indian hosts send on WhatsApp for a monthly kitty, a themed kitty and a housie or potluck afternoon, with three templates you can fill in. Copy the one that sounds like you, swap the names and the date, and send it to each member. ## Monthly kitty invitation messages For the regular turn: lunch at a restaurant or an afternoon at home. 1. Restaurant lunch 1.Ladies, my turn to host! Lunch at Olive Bistro, Koregaon Park, Pune, on Saturday, 14 February, 1 pm onwards. I need numbers for the set menu by Wednesday, so please say yes or no by then. Meera Copy 2. At home 2.The February kitty is at my place in Aundh, Pune, on Sunday the 15th from 4 pm. Snacks, card games and a round of housie before dinner. Parking is inside the society, tell the guard you are here for Sneha. Copy 3. Template 3.Dear \[Name\], it is my turn to host the kitty and I would love to have you over. \[Date\], \[Time\], \[Venue\]. Food is taken care of, games after. Kindly let me know by \[Reply by\] so I can plan for the right number. Copy 4. First kitty of a new group 4.Welcome to our new Saturday kitty! The first meet is at Priya's farmhouse on the Jaipur road on 21 February, 12 noon to 4 pm. Bring your contribution, your appetite and one game idea. Let me know you are in. Copy ## Themed kitty party messages When the afternoon has a dress code, a season or a festival behind it. 1. Retro Bollywood 5.Theme for this month: Retro Bollywood. Dress like your favourite 90s heroine and come ready to sing along. Kavya's house, Banjara Hills, Hyderabad, Saturday 28 February, 5 pm onwards. Reply yes so we can plan the prizes. Copy 2. Pastel brunch 6.A pastel brunch kitty at The Leela lawns, Lucknow, on Sunday 1 March at 11 am. Wear your softest colours, we are doing a group photo. Confirm by Thursday, the brunch count goes to the hotel on Friday. Copy 3. Template with a theme 7.Hello \[Name\], this month's kitty has a theme: \[Venue\] will be decorated for a monsoon evening, so come in rain colours. \[Date\], \[Time\]. Pakodas, chai and antakshari. Reply by \[Reply by\], please. Copy 4. Festive card party 8.Taash night for Diwali! The kitty moves to Ananya's terrace in Juhu, Mumbai, on Saturday 7 November from 7 pm. Wear something that sparkles, dinner is on me and the cards are already shuffled. Let me know you are coming. Copy ## Housie, potluck and short messages Game afternoons, shared cooking and two lines when the group already knows the drill. 1. Housie afternoon 9.Housie lovers, this one is for you. Full house carries a real prize this time. Rohini Society clubhouse, Nagpur, Sunday 22 February at 4 pm. Snacks are on me, bring your lucky pen. Reply so I know how many tickets to print. Copy 2. Potluck 10.Potluck turn this month at my place, 14 March, 1 pm. Pick a course and message me what you are bringing so we do not end up with four biryanis. Yes or no by the 10th, please. Copy 3. Short, with reply buttons 11.Sunday kitty at my place in Kochi, 12:30 pm. Biryani, gossip, one round of housie. Tap Yes or No below so I know how many plates to set. Copy 4. Short template 12.Save the afternoon of \[Date\] for our kitty, \[Time\] at \[Venue\]. Lunch is sorted, bring your luck for housie. Yes or no by \[Reply by\]? Copy ## What to include in a kitty party invitation message Check the message covers these points before you send it, so no guest has to ask you for details later. - Whose turn it is: the host's name, even in a group where everyone knows, so the message is easy to search later. - Date, start time and roughly how long, so members can plan the school pickup around it. - The venue with a landmark, and a line about parking or the society gate if it is at home. - The theme, dress code or games, if there are any, so nobody turns up in the wrong outfit. - What to bring: the monthly contribution, a potluck dish or nothing at all. - A reply-by date tied to a reason, such as booking the table or ordering the food. ### Before you send - Send the message to each member individually rather than only in the group. A group message gets a few thumbs up and no headcount. - Give the reply-by date a reason: the restaurant wants numbers by Wednesday. Members reply faster when they know why. - If the kitty has a theme, put it in the first line. Dress code buried at the end is the one thing members miss. - Keep one line for latecomers: tell them where to park or which gate to use, so you are not answering the same question twelve times. ## Send the kitty invitation on WhatsApp with one-tap replies Paste the message once and it goes to every member individually on WhatsApp with Yes, No and Maybe buttons. You see the headcount live and the members who have not replied get a gentle nudge before the reply-by date. 1. 1Copy the message you like and change the names, the date, the time and the venue. 2. 2Open the free card maker if you want a visual card to go with it, pick a template and download the PNG with no watermark. 3. 3Add your guest list and send. Every guest receives the message on WhatsApp with one-tap Yes, No and Maybe buttons, and nobody has to install an app. 4. 4Reminders go out on their own to guests who have not replied, and your headcount updates live as the answers come in. [Send with RSVP on WhatsApp](https://app.ueventi.com/login)[How RSVP on WhatsApp works](/rsvp-wedding-card) ## The message is half the job. The replies are the other half. Paste any of these into Eventi and it goes to each guest on WhatsApp with the card and Yes / No / Maybe buttons inside the message. Replies are counted, confirmed guests are asked how many are coming, and the silent ones get a reminder. You pay once per event, by the number of invitations. [Send your invitation with RSVP](https://app.ueventi.com/login) ## Kitty party invitation message questions, answered. 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